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Flags for the Forgotten

A photo of American flags standing in the ground.

American flags stand in the ground Sept.1, 2020, outside of the 177th Fighter Wing, Egg Harbor Township, N.J. 660 American flags were ceremoniously placed under the 177FW's bilboard to represent the approximate amount of Veterans that commit suicide every month in the United States. (U.S. Air National Guard photo by Airman 1st Class Hunter Hires)

A photo of American flags placed in the ground.

American flags stand in the ground Sept. 1, 2020, outside of the 177th Fighter Wing, Egg Harbor Township, N.J. 660 American flags were ceremoniously placed under the 177FW's billboard to represent the approximate amount of Veterans that commit suicide every month in the United States. (U.S. Air National Guard photo by Airman 1st Class Hunter Hires)

A photo of U.S. military veterans with the Flags for the Forgotten Soldiers organization, members of the Egg Harbor Township police department and members of the 177th Fighter Wing posing for a photo.

U.S. military veterans with the Flags for the Forgotten Soldiers organization, members of the Egg Harbor Township police department and members of the 177th Fighter Wing pose for a photo after they had placed American flags in the ground Aug. 31, 2020, outside of the 177th Fighter Wing, Egg Harbor Township, N.J. 660 American flags were placed under the 177FW's bilboard to represent the amount of U.S. military Veterans that commit suicide monthly. (Courtesy photo by Jennifer Baldwin)

A photo of U.S. military veterans with the Flags for the Forgotten Soldiers organization, members of the Egg Harbor Township police department and members of the 177th Fighter Wing placing American flags in the ground.

U.S. military veterans with the Flags for the Forgotten Soldiers organization, members of the Egg Harbor Township police department and members of the 177th Fighter Wing placed American flags in the ground Aug. 31, 2020, outside of the 177th Fighter Wing, Egg Harbor Township, N.J. 660 American flags were placed under the 177FW's bilboard to represent the amount of U.S. military Veterans that commit suicide monthly. (Courtesy photo by Jennifer Baldwin)

A photo of U.S. military veterans with the Flags for the Forgotten Soldiers organization, members of the Egg Harbor Township police department and members of the 177th Fighter Wing placing American flags in the ground.

U.S. military veterans with the Flags for the Forgotten Soldiers organization, members of the Egg Harbor Township police department and members of the 177th Fighter Wing placed American flags in the ground Aug. 31, 2020, outside of the 177th Fighter Wing, Egg Harbor Township, N.J. 660 American flags were placed under the 177FW's bilboard to represent the amount of U.S. military Veterans that commit suicide monthly. (Courtesy photo by Jennifer Baldwin)

A photo of U.S. military veterans with the Flags for the Forgotten Soldiers organization, members of the Egg Harbor Township police department and members of the 177th Fighter Wing placing American flags in the ground.

U.S. military veterans with the Flags for the Forgotten Soldiers organization, members of the Egg Harbor Township police department and members of the 177th Fighter Wing placed American flags in the ground Aug. 31, 2020, outside of the 177th Fighter Wing, Egg Harbor Township, N.J. 660 American flags were placed under the 177FW's bilboard to represent the amount of U.S. military Veterans that commit suicide monthly. (Courtesy photo by Jennifer Baldwin)

ATLANTIC CITY AIR NATIONAL GUARD BASE, N.J. --

Volunteers from the 177th Fighter Wing, the Egg Harbor Township Police Department and the Flags for Forgotten Soldiers organization placed 660 American flags outside the 177FW in support of the Flags for Forgotten Soldiers organization Aug. 31, 2020.

Howard Berry started Flags for Forgotten Soldiers to bring awareness to the staggering amount of veterans who take their own lives each month.

U.S. Army Staff Sgt. Joshua Berry, Howard Berry’s son, was injured in the first shooting on Fort Hood, Texas in 2009. Suffering from anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, he took his life four years later. The loss of his son pushed Berry to found Flags for the Forgotten Soldier. The event that took place at the 177th, in support of the Flags for the Forgotten Soldier organization, was organized by Jennifer Baldwin, Director of Psychological Health at the 177FW.

“Everyone takes away their own meaning when they look at the flag,” said Baldwin. “If you’re looking at the flag, or you see one at a sporting event, people might be kneeling, they might be standing, and they might take off their hat or salute. Everyone has their own experience when they look at the American flag and what it means to them. So, being able to see 660 flags representing how many veterans die every month, by their own hand, is almost like a ‘gut check.’”

U.S. veterans realize and appreciate the Flags for Forgotten Soldiers organization as well as many other organizations dedicated for veteran advocacy.

“I’ve talked to and worked with lots of Soldiers, Airmen, Marines and Sailors who’ve been by the 177th,” said Baldwin. “I asked them, ‘How did that make you feel?’ and they said, ‘Good. Someone is recognizing that our service matters. And that not just our service matters, but our lives beyond our service matter.’”

It is an unfortunate fact that not only is the amount of veteran suicides high, but the suicide rate in the U.S. Air Force had a 33 percent increase in 2019, at 137 cases across Active Duty, Air National Guard and Air Force Reserves, said www.military.com.

“The Air Force doesn’t have the same numbers (of veteran suicides) as the Army, but when you look at the Army Reserves and the Air National Guard per 100,000, we are higher,” said Baldwin. “The Army has a lot of people, but their rate of suicide amongst theirs is lower than our rate of suicide.”

Baldwin, being the Director of Psychological Health at the 177th, is deeply learned and knowledgeable about how to go about helping someone who wishes harm upon themselves, possessing a wise point of view on the topic.

“As much as it might seem like an impulsive reaction, there are things that happen long before suicide that we can use to start speculating how and why things are progressing to an unhealthy state,” said Baldwin. “There are so many myths in regards to the victims of suicide; that people think it’s a selfish act, or that they’re seeking attention. The truth of the matter is that oftentimes they’re very ill.”

Baldwin stated that we don’t have the power to revive the dead. However, we do have the power to help those who are suffering while they’re still here.

“If it’s mentionable, it’s manageable,” said Baldwin. “That is my bottom line. If we can talk about what experience someone has, or what they’re thinking or feeling, or what action they’ve had taken against them or against someone else, we can deal with it. So, to me, one of the myths about suicide is that you can’t talk about it.”

Acknowledging that someone needs help and being honest with them is the first step toward healing.

“Know that there is somebody, no matter where you are in your life or experiences, who is capable and able to hear you safely,” said Baldwin. “To remind us of the importance of the fact that if you’re not okay, there’s someone that can listen and help you get through the experience and stand up to it with you.”

If an Airman from the 177th feels as if they are alone, or that they can’t find the help that they’re looking for, the military offers many invaluable resources for a sizable amount of mental health concerns, said Baldwin.

“There are a lot of other resources that our Airmen can use to seek help. On the back of everyone’s insurance card, there should be a confidential mental health or substance use treatment number. We have Military OneSource (800-342-9647), a much more secure mental health service that covers problems such as grief and loss, communication deficits in a relationship, parent and child relationship concerns, or coming back from deployment and trying to readjust. There are also Community Based Outpatient Clinics, implemented by the Veteran’s Health Association.”

September is Suicide Awareness Month, observed for September’s entirety. If a Veteran or service member is displaying signs of suicidal thoughts, use the Veterans Crisis Line’s resources: Call 1-800-273-8255 and Press 1, VeteransCrisisLine.net/chat or text to 838255.

“To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson